Helping your child settle in nursery

Helping Your Child Settle in Nursery

Supporting a Smooth and Happy Start at Rafles

Starting nursery is a big step — for both children and parents. Whether it’s their very first time away from home or just a new setting, transitions can bring a mix of excitement, nerves, and questions. At Rafles, we’re here to support every family through this journey with patience, care, and practical strategies.

Here are our top tips to help your child settle confidently into nursery life.

1. Start with Short Goodbyes

During the first few days, it’s normal for children to feel unsure or even upset when you leave. That’s okay — and expected. What helps is keeping goodbyes short and reassuring. Long, emotional farewells can make the separation feel harder.

💡 Try saying something simple like: “I’m going now, but I’ll be back after snack time!”

2. Talk About Nursery at Home

In the days leading up to their first day (and even after), talk positively about nursery. Share what they can expect — toys, friends, fun activities, kind grown-ups. This builds familiarity and comfort.

📘 You can even read books together about going to nursery — it helps children feel less alone in their feelings.

3. Bring a Comfort Item

If your child has a favourite toy, blanket, or even a family photo, let them bring it in. Having something from home provides a sense of security and consistency.

🧸 We encourage comfort items, especially in the early weeks.

4. Stick to a Routine

Young children thrive on routine. Consistency in wake-up times, meals, and bedtime helps create predictability — and a calm mind. When their day has structure, new experiences like nursery feel less overwhelming.

📅 Try to arrive around the same time each day, so the drop-off feels familiar.

5. Build Up Gradually

If possible, begin with shorter sessions and gradually increase their time at nursery. This helps them adjust without becoming overtired or overstimulated.

⏰ We’re happy to support flexible settling-in schedules at Rafles.

6. Trust the Process (and the Team!)

Sometimes, children cry when separating — and then settle happily within minutes. It can be tough to walk away, but trust that you’re leaving them in experienced, caring hands.

💬 We’ll always keep you updated, send photos, and check in with how your child is doing.

7. Be Gentle With Yourself Too

Parents need support too. It’s perfectly normal to feel emotional, nervous, or even a little guilty. You’re not alone — and these feelings pass. You’re giving your child an incredible opportunity to grow and explore.

❤️ And we’re right here to walk the journey with you.

Final Thoughts

Settling into nursery is a process — not a single moment. Every child is different, and we take the time to get to know them as individuals. At Rafles, we work closely with families to build strong, nurturing relationships from day one.

Need help preparing for your child’s first day? Talk to our team — we’re always here with guidance, reassurance, and a warm smile.